How is it possible to build a millionaire mindset? This will be discussed with you today. Today we will discuss the book “Secrets of the Millionaire Mind”. The book was written by T. Harv Eker. We will also know 7 Rich vs Poor Differences!
According to a study, 80% of people who win the lottery and become millionaires become poor again. Maybe you have such people around you.
But if those who become rich through their own hard work become poor for some reason, 80% of them become rich again. Warren Buffett is a great example.
This happens because of different types of attitudes. The author believes that our inner perspective reflects our outer perspective. Imagine a green and fresh tree.
The fruits that grow on that tree indicate the results of a different field. Now if the fruits look small, and you want to get big fruits, what should you do? You must pay attention to the roots of the tree.
Because the roots are the real source of the tree’s fruits. Similarly, the fruits of our outer world are a reflection of the thoughts of our inner world.
But it is invisible in the outside world. So if you want to bring about any change outside, you have to bring about change inside.
To become rich, you have to change the mentality of being poor and develop the mentality of becoming a rich person. But the question is, how is this possible?
To do this, you have to recognize your own money blueprint. That is, what are you thinking about money? The author believes that the money blueprint is determined in 3 ways.
The first is called verbal.
That is, what have you heard from people about money since childhood? For example: If you want to earn money, you have to work hard. Or, money doesn’t grow on trees.
The second is called a model.
That is, how did people see money being spent from childhood? For example, if your parents have been fighting in front of you since childhood, then you will consider that situation normal.
The third step is incident.
If a small child sees an ice cream cart, he wants to buy ice cream with money from his father. Then the father says, ‘Your mother has money, I don’t.
Then he goes to his mother and takes money and buys ice cream. The second day, he asks his mother for money but doesn’t get it. Then he takes money from his father and buys ice cream.
Then he gets an idea that money is only with boys. Girls don’t have money. In this way, the third blueprint is formed. Now if we want to change these, how?
The author has given a formula to change these. His formula is TFAR. T means thoughts, F means feelings, A means Action, R means result.
Feelings are created from thoughts, actions from feelings, and results are obtained from actions. Therefore, foremost, we have to change the roots, that is, the thoughts.
The first characteristic is Poor people think life is controlling me
Rich people think I can take control of my life. Poor people also think about their lives in 3 ways. For example: the first is blame. They blame the government and family members for their plight.
The second is justice. If they don’t find a good girl to marry, they say, girls don’t like good boys. Again, if they can’t earn money, they say that money is not important, but relationships are more important.
But both things are very important. But they just compare. It’s like comparing a whale in the ocean to a camel in the desert. The third is to complain. Everything in this world needs to be spread.
But they just keep complaining. As a result, they don’t have a way to solve it. They are just busy with problems.So, the more you focus on the problems, the more the path to solutions will be closed.
Therefore, first learn to take responsibility for your own problems. For at least 7 days, refrain from these 3 thoughts.
Now let’s look at the second characteristic of the poor and the rich.
Rich people fight to win. On the other hand, poor people fight to avoid defeat.If you play any game with a defensive mindset, how likely are you to score in that game? Surely very little.
So, if you want to be rich, you have to fight in life with an attacking mindset to win.
The third characteristic is Rich people praise other rich people.
Poor people hate other rich people. Have you ever noticed when you meet a rich person, do they curse other rich people? Do they say, Mr. X has become rich through illegal means?
Instead of such hatred, if we learn from any good aspects of that rich person, it will be very fruitful for us.
The fourth characteristic is Rich people think both.
If I had a lot of money, I wouldn’t be able to give time to my family. Or, those who are rich are not kind. Poor people think those ways. The easiest game in this world is life.
Because, here the player is you, the referee is you, the rules are yours. So how will you fail? The pen and the book are in your hands. So, you don’t need to think about either or options.
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Rich people don’t think about alternative negative thoughts.
The fifth characteristic is Rich people are bigger than their problems.
Poor people are smaller than their problems. You are like a container. If you are poor, the problems seem very big. But if you are rich, your container will be very big. Then the problems seem very small.
The sixth characteristic is Rich people keep learning constantly.
Poor people think they know everything. If you give a person with a rich person’s mentality a motivational book as a gift where ways to become rich are written, they will accept it with joy and start studying.
But if you tell a person with a poor mentality to read a motivational book, they will say, “What will happen by reading this? “I know what is written in these books. “I won’t read them.” But in reality, they don’t know anything.
The seventh and final characteristic is Rich people act in spite of fear.
Poor people let fear stop them. Poor people are afraid of being uncomfortable. They expect to stay in their comfortable place. As a result, they stay in a bad or stable place.
Because it is not possible to change one’s situation by being comfortable.If you are trying to become rich, you have to move away from the comfortable state.
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If you throw a stone aiming at a 10-story building, there is a possibility that it will reach the 5th floor. But if you throw a stone aiming at the 5th floor, it may not reach the 5th floor.
Therefore, to live a comfortable life, you must now give up comfort. May your journey be auspicious.
